Sometimes I wish I could dance with the rest of you,
but to waltz into conformity,
leaves me two left feet awkward,
stumbling over myself to find a foot in mediocrity.
I’ve been guilty of looking down on others,
and what a bitter lesson it is,
to taste my own bile,
and stare straight at a victim in their eyes.
I’ve no boat big enough,
to carry my remorse out to sea,
the most restless winds,
won’t blow my shame away.
So when I see how easily,
everyone makes the same mistakes,
it hurts to be reminded,
to have a replay reel of who I am inside,
a self fulfilling prophecy is inevitable,
if I don’t pretend not to know how to dance.
That’s why I shy away.
I can love with the best of them,
boy can I love,
I can laugh and play,
I fight with a rage so turbulent,
it attracts even those who hate it,
but looking at innocence is too much for me to bare.
This comfort with the quo,
is the mediocrity that pains me,
alas, solitude is a great shackle to wear,
and if all else fails,
a great anchor for this flailing soul that won’t behave itself.
If the boat isn’t large enough,
and the winds aren’t strong enough,
the sea bottom is surely large enough,
to swallow far greater than me,
far worse than me, far better than me.
Here I am all Pharaoh like on display,
waiting to be swallowed whole.
and still no acceptance.
did I find solitude in separation,
calm in introversion,
whilst others are out wrestled by urge and inclination?
How do I pause when others impulse?
There are still a few of us,
who shun the outer for the inner,
but society has been a frequent customer,
of the comfort world.
We’ve learned to avoid pain so well,
that we’ll inevitably stagnate and whither,
if people don’t remind us,
that it’s OK to see some ugliness,
some bad shit,
some gross stuff inside you,
not to accept and parade it as acceptance,
and contentment with ones’ self.
Rather, it gives you the incentive to improve,
to learn – in the process – what it takes to get away from all that unsavoury stuff inside.
Any process that allows you that,
will inevitably add value to your character,
be it in a month or twenty years.
Pain is not there to be avoided,
it’s there to jolt us into growth,
a reminder to manage and push through it for adaptation.
Avoidance, only limits exposure,
and lack of exposure leads to oblivious ignorance to a better way.
cocoon into hermit disregard,
to bathe in pain,
because I want to grow.
How’s that for a dance with ones self?