Sometimes, the best way to be together with humanity is to recluse yourself into obscurity.
Thirteen years ago I raised my hands to my Lord on the steps of his house and said, “God, make me invisible”, and it has been the most peaceful years of my life.
This way you not only relieve your ears and heart from the turbulence of humans, but don’t give them a reason to sin and belittle or backbite you.
In essence, it is the ultimate love of your fellow man to display, you looking after their tongue whilst they cannot.
You won’t taste the fruit of union until you have suffered the pangs of separation.